Hi Matt, hi PWA team,
I’m a dad of nine, and together with my wife, we’re trying—and mostly failing—to raise our kids to love the faith and want to become saints. In the mess and beauty of that daily struggle, your podcast has been a real help.
I wanted to suggest a topic that’s been on my mind lately: the tension between the Surrender Novena and Catholic teaching on grace and personal responsibility.
The novena’s daily intros are presented as direct quotes from Jesus to Don Dolindo, urging us stop worrying (so far, so good) but also to stop acting, —and let Him “take care of everything.” It’s powerful, and I pray every day as part of my evening routine on Halo.
But here’s the problem: if grace doesn’t override our free will but works through it, and if quietism is a condemned error, how do we reconcile that with Jesus (allegedly) telling us to abandon all action and simply trust? Is Don Dolindo mistaken in attributing these words to Christ? Or is there no real contradiction—just a deeper theology I’m missing?
I think a Pints With Aquinas episode exploring this apparent contradiction would be really helpful. I’d be interested in diving into Scripture, the saints (maybe St. Thérèse’s “active trust” or St. Ignatius’ “pray as if everything depends on God, work as if everything depends on you”), and of course St. Thomas Aquinas – what insights does the Angelic Doctor offer on divine providence vs. free will and secondary causes? Perhaps you could discuss Fr. Dolindo Ruotolo’s intent with the Surrender Novena and how to properly understand “letting Jesus take care of everything” in light of Church teaching on human freedom and responsibility. Is it just a matter of properly ordered priorities (i.e. trust first, then act), or is there a real theological nuance to unpack? I can imagine an engaging conversation here, and maybe a few good jokes about us over-stressed Catholic parents trying to be “Mary” when we’re wired to be “Martha”.
In a nutshell: How do we surrender to God without abdicating the genuine responsibilities He’s given us? Given your show’s style, I know the discussion would be both deep and entertaining. Plus, I suspect many fellow listeners have felt this tension in their own spiritual lives. I’d love to hear you unpack this—biblically, theologically, and, of course, with a pint in hand.
Whether or not the topic makes it on the air, I’m grateful for all that you do. Our two oldest sons met you in Budapest a year or so ago and our oldest daughter met you at a summer camp maybe a decade ago. Keep up the great work!
Under the Mercy,
Attila
(surrendering—sort of)