Charity is the most important virtue. We’re called to be generous in imitation of Christ, who gave everything to save us.
Some saints went to seemingly superhuman lengths to be generous to people, especially the poor. Think of St. Francis, who chose complete poverty to identify more closely with those in need and even touched the lepers. Or St. Maximilian Kolbe, who offered to be put to death by the Nazis in place of a condemned husband and father.
Still, charity doesn’t mean we shouldn’t protect our personal space. Here are tips for balancing generosity and boundaries.
Consider your state in life.
Depending on your vocation, you’re called to exercise generosity in a specific way. A friar may be called to give up his belongings and work in sometimes unsanitary or dangerous conditions.
A parent is called to a different kind of generosity. Your spouse and children come first, so it doesn’t violate charity to accumulate a certain amount of resources to give your family a dignified life.